In the video above, sex therapist Teesha Morgan takes David and Ramona to Almost Naked on Queen Street for a titillating lingerie spree. While David finds a saucy bra and panty set for Ramona, she goes on a quest for a serious thong. Maybe that’s not the first thing that comes to mind when you think ‘hot’ but David does it well…umm..,we know because the camera takes us into the change room. I’ve already told my husband Nick that this weekend we are doing some undie shopping together; he’s really excited and I can’t wait to add an erotic set to my blah rotation. Nick really seems to enjoy complicated lingerie – so we are out to find me a number that involves lots of snaps, clips and intricate layers that will take time to undo. (See Agent Provocateur example to the left….that’s what I’m talking about!) I’m especially seeking some suspenders that clip to a lacy thong – which then connect to some silky thigh-high stockings. I will throw some three inch black patent pumps on and finish the look with a leather jacket, BADASS! The best part about lingerie shopping with your man – is having him peek in the change room…and frankly it’s been far too long since we’ve shared a public – but intimate – moment like that. For me, I really like seeing a man in tight undies that accentuate the bulge, feel nice when I grab his ass and have a hint of humour – so I’m a big fan of the Buckler Sexy Bastard briefs. He already has a pair – but we are going to get him a new one in a different style. When he wears them, I call him my “Sexy B”.

The idea of making a date to exclusively pick up some under garments is really exciting – and I think it will be extra fun if we bump into friends on the street and with a sinister smile relay that we are just running errands. Once we are done our shopping, we are going to hit up Oyster Boy for a dozen East Coast beauties on the half shell and then finish the night with red wine, candles and Leonard Cohen. I’m hoping for a slow process of feeling each other’s sexy new garments, lots of kisses up and down the body and a sensual unraveling of clothes. I can’t wait; just thinking about it makes me smile.

We’ve been together for five years – so I’m thrilled to devote the next month to a series of activities that will liven up our romantic life, and share the experiences with you. Giddy up!