I love the missionary position, especially if I’m fucking someone for the first time. It makes me feel more connected to that person and slightly less vulnerable. But since, like other women, I’m not always able to have an orgasm in this position (due to the mere fact that I’m less able to control the movements), I looked up some tips to ensure that I’ll come every time. And hopefully, by following these techniques, your lady will too while lying comfortably on her back.

1. Coital Alignment Technique
With you on top, raise yourself up so that you’re closer to a 90-degree angle from the woman. The main goal in this position is to have either the shaft of your penis, or your pubic mound, rubbing against her clitoris as you penetrate her.

2. Upside Down
Have her lie on her back across the bed, with her head and shoulders dangling over the edge. Make sure she keeps as much of her lower back on the mattress as possible. For some women, combining this with physical pleasure could heighten her orgasm.

3. The Jack Hammer
She lies on her back with a leg up over each of your shoulders. Kneel, placing your knees beside her waist.  Rest your hands on top of her thighs to control the movement as you enter her. Make sure she’s comfortable stretched out in this position.

4. The Slow Down
Get high up on her so your hips are above hers, and then enter her at a downward angle, very, very slowly, making sure you rub against her clit while penetrating her.

5. Rocking the Cradle
She places her legs up over your shoulders while you rock back and forth. Firm foot placement and upper body stamina will be required for this position. Be careful not to flatten her legs to her body, or, you know, crush her.

6. Bicycle
Have her lie back and place her right leg on your right shoulder. Bend her left leg and place it beside your right side. Ease forward into her vagina. She can touch her clit with you like this for added stimulation.

7. Under Pressure
Have her raise her right leg until her knee is even with your left shoulder. She should leave her left leg flat on the bed. Then direct your thrusts towards the inner thigh of her raised leg. This position will stretch out her vagina, allowing for tighter penetration and more pressure on her clit.

8. Propped Up
Place a pillow under her butt before entering her. It will keep her pelvis lifted, which will allow you to penetrate her more deeply. Use long, slow thrusts while in this position.

9. Golden Gate Bridge
Place her on her back with a pillow under her shoulders. Kneel between her legs, keeping your knees bent at 90 degrees and guide her up toward you with your hands under her waist. Position her vagina in line with your penis and insert. Use short thrusts to penetrate. She can keep you close by wrapping her hands around the backs of your legs.

Other than pillows, there are other props you can bring into bed with you, such as lubricant (to spread all over your chest and abdomen for a little slippin’ and slidin’), high heel boots (for her to wear and you to rub up against), vibrator (for her or for you), a mirror, either overhead or at your side (to, obviously, watch yourselves in action), and a towel (in case she’s a squirter).