A couple weeks back, I sat down with Toronto event producer and publicist April Wozny to review the (disappointing) gender gap when it comes to Canadian men and women having orgasms during sex. Durex polled 1500 Canadians and 61% of men questioned said they achieve orgasm every time they engage in sexual activity, compared to 24% of women. NOT SO HOT!  

While April and I are not sex therapists, we think the first step to changing these numbers is to acknowledge that our bodies are built differently, and the next is to encourage women (and men!) to have more conversations about their sex life: what works for them and what doesn’t.

This week, my sex convo with comedian Jess Beaulieu went a little deeper. What comes after talking about sex? Exploring, Experimenting, and Enjoying sex, or what we’re now coining “the 3Es of SEX.” E-x-c-e-l-l-e-n-t!

Thankfully, 94% of men polled in Durex’s survey think it’s important for their partner to orgasm, so let’s remember the “3E’s of SEX” – Explore more, Experiment more and Enjoy sex more.


To help you accomplish the important Es that lead to those Os, we’re giving away the NEW Durex Intense Orgasmic Range. The Intense Orgasmic Gel is designed specifically for female pleasure to help intensify your experience down there with waves of warming, cooling and tingling sensations. OoOoOoOoOhhh! Sounds HOT!

 The lucky winner will receive the following:

  • Durex Intense Orgasmic Gel
  • Durex Intense Orgasmic Condoms
  • Durex Intense Bullet

 Gurl, you better clear your schedule! You’ve got some things to try.

There are three ways to enter:


LIKE and COMMENT WITH AN EMOJI OF YOUR CHOICE on the vid of Jess and Jen talking about sex, masturbation, etc.


LIKE and COMMENT on our Summer of Sexual Pleasure Contest post on FB


Tweet: “YES, @Shedoesthecity, I want to win the @DurexCanada Intense Orgasmic Range! Sex is about enjoying & exploring your bod. #OrgasmsForAll”

Stay tuned for next week’s video as I chat with artist Chason Yeboah about introducing those fun little extras…can I hear it for lubes and toys!…into the bedroom and why you’re missing out if they’re not already there!