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An imperfect life guide for women


30 Things To Learn By 30

Never sleep with someone who is rude to waiters, unkind to animals or uninterested in learning. If you’re one of these people, consider relocating to another planet.

When 27 and 15 Feel Shockingly Similar

My day-to-day is essentially the same as it was when I was 15, wearing spindly glasses and high ponytails. Only this time, my glasses are cool and my hair’s in a bun. And this time, I’m working in New Zealand.

On Feeling Unlovable

Dating right now is chock full of disappointments and you’d have to have feelings made of tungsten not to internalize it.

How Not To Love

I convinced myself that bad boys cared about me, the same way I convinced myself that drugs don’t have hangovers.