If you believe that you are incapable of being loved, then you’ll live your life so that it corresponds with said perception of yourself.
From straight on, I look like a perfectly adequate person, but the moment I turn slightly, I might as well be Gru from Despicable Me.
Sometimes they drink at the bar you’ve been to that one time. That’s enough grounds to go on a first date with this person, right?
That loose change jar on your kitchen countertop is now a legitimate source of income for you.
Time really is the only thing that heals and I’ve only recently learned the skills to get me through.
We make huge life decisions when we’re young, or inexperienced, and there’s nothing wrong with outgrowing old goals or values.