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Staircase Sex: It Happened

A few weeks ago, I decided to have sex with a man twice my age in a hotel staircase. It’s not what you think. I’m not an escort. It was a fuck, plain and simple.  My relationship with this man is bizarre, reckless and unexplainably odd, but the experience was thrilling, completely irrational and sexually… Read More »

Daddy: Madison Young Pens a Memoir On Her Loving S&M Relationship

In the pro-porn movement that took over the American porn scene in the early 2000’s, Madison Young is heralded as one of the leading pioneers of Feminist Porn. Like Courtney Trouble and Shine Louise Houston, Young creates pornographic works of art that speak to the masses that are underrepresented in mainstream pornography. From bondage to… Read More »

Twentysomething Sex Ed: How to Have Your Best Sex

During my teens I thought I was having good sex. No, great sex. I was convinced that this was what the Olympics of sex and I was getting a silver or gold e’ry night. My twisted upbringing of binging on The O.C. and other early 2000s pop culture led me to believe that sex, despite… Read More »

Diary of a Polyamorist: An Introduction to What Poly Means to Me

So, I’m polyamorous. You could call me poly, open, ethically non-monogamous if you wanted to. They would all be true things. For those of you who don’t know (and for some reason don’t have access to that gem called Google [or Bing, AskJeeves, your chosen search engine is a personal, unique choice for everyone]), this… Read More »

I Was the Other Woman Who Stole Your Boyfriend

I was going to begin by stating. “I’m ashamed to say…” but to be honest, I really don’t think I am. The truth is, I have had much experience as “the other woman.” It’s been painful, pleasurable, hard yet easy, but most of all it has informed my current understanding of self, love and relationships.… Read More »