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How to give the perfect hand job

First things first, lubricate those hands of yours! No guy wants your bone
dry palms moving up and down his dick. It causes friction and it hurts. You
can use your own saliva, but it dries up quickly. Second thing, get
comfortable. Determine which is your best hand (though at times, you’ll be
using both) and position yourself accordingly; that is, if you’re going to
be jerking him while lying on your side. Alternative hand job positions include: him standing in front of you while you sit on the bed, you lying on
your back while he straddles your stomach, and you nestling between his
legs, facing him. Third thing, hold that penis as though your holding a pop
can: With medium pressure. Not too hard (you don’t want to crush him), but
not too gentle (you don’t want him to think you’re not loving it).

1. Firestarter

You can start with this to give him an erection, but once he’s hard, you’ll
want to move onto something else. Hold his penis between both palms and roll
it as though you’re trying to start a fire.

2. Twist and Shout

Turn your hand upside down and grip his penis (you should be seeing the
back of your hand with your thumb at the bottom). With your fingers circling
his shaft, move the hand up, slowly twisting around untl you reach the tip.
Then release your fingers and let your palm glide over the head of his
penis. Grip the shaft again, your hand will be facing ther other way now,
with the fingers nearest you, and slide it back down, twisting as you go.

3. Healing Stroke

With the penis resting on the man’s stomach, take one hand and cup the
testicles. Then glide the heel of the palm of the other hand up and down the
underside of the penis.

4. Basketweave
Interlock your fingers and thumbs loosely, so they form a basket. Slip this
over his penis, so the glans poke out between your thumbs. Then clasp your
hands a little tighter around him. Move them up until you reach the top.
When you do twist your hands back towards you, so your interlocked fingers
glide over the head of the penis. then twist them back down over the head
again, and then back down the shaft.

5. Doorknob

Turn the head of his penis like you’re trying to open an oily doorknob. Now
try turning the other way. Repeat. This stroke is sometimes improved by
using the other hand to stretch the skin of the penis toward the base.

6. Anvil Stroke and Milking

Start with one hand lightly grasping the top of the penis. Then stroke the
penis from the top, all the way to the bottom. When you hit the bottom,
release the penis. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the top of the penis
and repeat. Make sure there is constant contact. You can do this also is the
opposite direction, starting from the bottom and stroking to the top, as
though you were milking him.

7. The Wiggle
Grip his penis with both hands, grip the loose skin on either side of it.
Wiggle the penis back and forth while holding onto the skin. Don’t worry,
this doesn’t hurt.

8. Cock Ring

Pretend your finger and thumb is a cock ring and hold him at the base
tightly. This will slow blood flow away from his dick, which will keep him
hard longer. With the other hand, stroke it up and down, or do whatever.
Anything you do here will feel good because he’s being held so tight with
the other hand.

9. Dicks and Pubes and Thighs, Oh My
Stroke his dick with one hand, use the other hand to stroke and caress his
inner thighs, just below the penis, where it’s very sensitive. Also, with
that hand, you can play with his pubic hairs, gently pulling at them or
teasing them with fingertips.

10. Palms Down

Use your open palm to swirl around the head of his penis. It’ll make his
dick harder and even more sensitive. Alternate direction of the swirls.

If your man has a habit of ejaculating too soon, apply one of these two
methods to keep him from cumming:
a) Place your flat hand on the top of his
penis and gently push down.
b) Get him to hold the base of his penis tightly just when he’s about to shoot. And then, with those masterful hands, give
yourself a sticky applause.

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How to Give the Perfect Hand Job: Use your mouth. ;)


A great hand job is a wonderful thing for which men are very grateful; as you mention, proper lubrication is essential. But guys need to also take steps to keep soreness at bay; encourage him to regularly use a quality penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) with natural moisturizers like shea butter and vitamin E.


First of all, giving a man a great blow job is all in your confidence. Men just love a confident woman who acts like she knows exactly what she is doing in the bedroom. Even if you don't know what you are doing, acting like it will trick him into believing your every move. With the right amount of confidence, you can turn him on and make him very hard before you even touch him. Then, as your mouth finally touches him down there, sparks will fly and whatever you do next will feel incredible.




@FireStarter  please share!