How to give the perfect hand job

First things first, lubricate those hands of yours! No guy wants your bone-dry palms moving up and down his dick. It causes friction and it hurts. You can use your own saliva, but it dries up quickly. Second thing, get comfortable. Determine which is your best hand (though at times, you’ll be using both) and position yourself accordingly; that is, if you’re going to be jerking him while lying on your side. Alternative hand job positions include: him standing in front of you while you sit on the bed, you lying on your back while he straddles your stomach, and you nestling between his legs, facing him. Third thing, hold that penis as though you’re holding a pop can: with medium pressure. Not too hard (you don’t want to crush him), but not too gentle (you don’t want him to think you’re not loving it).

1. Firestarter

Hold his penis between both palms and roll it as though you’re trying to start a fire. You can start with this to give him an erection, but once he’s hard, you’ll want to move on to something else.

2. Twist and Shout

Turn your hand upside down and grip his penis (you should be seeing the back of your hand with your thumb at the bottom). With your fingers circling his shaft, move the hand up, slowly twisting around until you reach the tip. Then release your fingers and let your palm glide over the head of his penis. Grip the shaft again, your hand will be facing the other way now, with the fingers nearest you, and slide it back down, twisting as you go.

3. Healing Stroke

With the penis resting on the man’s stomach, take one hand and cup the testicles. Then glide the heel of the palm of the other hand up and down the underside of the penis.

4. Basketweave

Interlock your fingers and thumbs loosely, so they form a basket. Slip this over his penis, so the glans poke out between your thumbs. Then clasp your hands a little tighter around him. Move them up until you reach the top. When you do, twist your hands back towards you, so your interlocked fingers glide over the head of the penis. Then twist them back down over the head again, and then back down the shaft.

5. Doorknob

Turn the head of his penis like you’re trying to open an oily doorknob. Now try turning the other way. Repeat. This stroke is sometimes improved by using the other hand to stretch the skin of the penis toward the base.

6. Anvil Stroke and Milking

Start with one hand lightly grasping the top of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the top, all the way to the bottom. When you hit the bottom, release the penis. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the top of the penis and repeat. Make sure there is constant contact. You can do this also in the opposite direction, starting from the bottom and stroking to the top, as though you were milking him.

7. The Wiggle

Grip his penis with both hands, grip the loose skin on either side of it. Wiggle the penis back and forth while holding onto the skin. Don’t worry, this doesn’t hurt.

8. Cock Ring

Pretend your finger and thumb is a cock ring and hold him at the base tightly. This will slow blood flow away from his dick, which will keep him hard longer. With the other hand, stroke it up and down, or do whatever. Anything you do here will feel good because he’s being held so tight with the other hand.

9. Dicks and Pubes and Thighs, Oh My

Stroke his dick with one hand, use the other hand to stroke and caress his inner thighs, just below the penis, where it’s very sensitive. Also, with that hand, you can play with his pubic hairs, gently pulling at them or teasing them with fingertips.

10. Palms Down

Use your open palm to swirl around the head of his penis. It’ll make his dick harder and even more sensitive. Alternate direction of the swirls.

If your man has a habit of ejaculating too soon, apply one of these two methods to keep him from cumming:
a) Place your flat hand on the top of his penis and gently push down.
b) Get him to hold the base of his penis tightly just when he’s about to shoot. And then, with those masterful hands, give yourself a sticky applause.

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  8. Anonymous43
    April 5, 2011

    Hand jobs are just lame. I mean, of course it’s important that you know how to use your hands when jerking off a guy, but I don’t see why you wouldn’t give a guy a blow job instead of just a hand job. You girls should read Jack’s Blowjob Lessons (here’s a link: )

  9. emily<3
    April 15, 2011

    whats the best position to be in the cinema how should we sit if i wanted to give him head and handjob andd..and what is a good position to be in when u get fingered? thanks for the help!!! highly apprechiated!!xxx

  10. emily<3
    April 15, 2011

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    November 17, 2014

    First of all, giving a man a great blow job is all in your confidence. Men just love a confident woman who acts like she knows exactly what she is doing in the bedroom. Even if you don’t know what you are doing, acting like it will trick him into believing your every move. With the right amount of confidence, you can turn him on and make him very hard before you even touch him. Then, as your mouth finally touches him down there, sparks will fly and whatever you do next will feel incredible.

  13. JohnDugan
    December 2, 2014

    A great hand job is a wonderful thing for which men are very
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  14. ZeliaPhor
    July 8, 2015

    NO. Just no. Some of these tips are alright, but the palm one, no way just does not work.  Also, some of these can pretty painful! Trust me..I know from actual experience. They will probably feel pain from some of these tips.  Check out this guide instead, WAY more direct and full of advice that isn’t wacky just to catch reader’s attention:

  15. Anonymous125796
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