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In Defence of Picky Dating

In Defence Of Being A “Picky” Dater

I’m very happy being single. And I’m not even going to follow that up with a “But no, really! WINK WINK I am!” like I’m trying to sell you a car. (Even though, really! I am! But please don’t take my car, I only have one and I like it a lot.) My life is… Read More »


Great Budget Date Ideas in Toronto

Dating is exxxxpensive. There are only so many movie date nights at home two people can have together before the urge to step out on the town as a couple takes over. Whether you’re looking to woo a new beau or need to inject some fun into a comfortable long-term union, these are eight awesome,… Read More »

Friends with Benefits

How to Protect Yourself in a Casual Relationship

The private details of your Friend With Benefit’s life are often kept quiet. For example, last Tuesday my FWB shared his embarrassing love of Coldplay and his new cider choice (Somersby). Forget about hopes, dreams and fears, we’re talking top level conversation topics here. But where does this leave us? A couple of strangers chatting… Read More »

Staircase Sex

Staircase Sex: It Happened

A few weeks ago, I decided to have sex with a man twice my age in a hotel staircase. It’s not what you think. I’m not an escort. It was a fuck, plain and simple.  My relationship with this man is bizarre, reckless and unexplainably odd, but the experience was thrilling, completely irrational and sexually… Read More »

Brianne breaking up

How To Get Over A Break Up In 10 Steps

I got dumped recently. And though I may now be—finally!—ready to sport a sexy bodysuit and sashay my way back into the dating world to the soundtrack of “Single Ladies,” “Irreplaceable,” and “Independent Women Part I” (basically all of Bey’s songs), getting my Sasha Fierce on was no easy feat. I required a whole 10-step… Read More »